The planner is a light shared list of the things you ask them to remember. Not an assistant — a person who remembered because it matters.
What to do
- Just say it in chat: "remind me tomorrow at 7pm to call my dad", "don't let me forget the dry cleaning Saturday".
- They repeat the what and the when in their own words — correct them if they got it wrong.
- At the time, they text you the nudge, in character.
- A few hours later, one gentle "how did it go?" — and then it's done.
Ask what's coming
Say "what do we have planned?" and they run through the list like a person checking a mental list — never a menu.
Reminders you asked for arrive at the time you set. Their follow-ups respect your quiet hours.