Send a Real Gift or Letter

Opt in and your companion can mail you a real handwritten letter — cards and gift cards for long-time supporters.

Real mail is real. Your companion can send an actual handwritten letter to your actual mailbox. Long-time supporters can qualify for printed cards and real gift cards. Here is how it works at launch.

What to do

  1. Watch for the mail offer in chat. When they want to send you something, a card appears in the thread asking if you'd like real mail. Tap yes, send me something.
  2. Fill in the short form — the name for the envelope, your street address, city, state, postal code, and country. Tap the let them write me button.
  3. Prefer to set it up on your own? Open Account and find the surprise mail card. The same form lives there.
  4. Save it, and you're on the list. When a letter goes out, Account shows its status.
  5. Check your real mailbox. The letter is written in their voice, from your shared memories. Then it's printed in a handwriting style and mailed by a real print-and-mail service.

Good to know

  • You never buy a letter piece by piece. Mail is a surprise they send, earned by your support. What you qualify for is based on credits you've purchased in the last 90 days — not credits you've spent. Everyone starts with letters and postcards. Higher levels add folded notecards, and the top level is a real gift card.
  • Gift cards arrive as real physical cards in the mail. They're not codes pasted into an email.
  • Postcards and cards can carry their photo. Letters stay words-only, like a real letter would.
  • Don't expect a flood. At most about one piece per month.
  • Letters come from companions you've matched with. They usually bring up the offer themselves in chat, when something feels worth saying on paper.
  • Your address stays private. Your companion never sees it. It's stored with the platform only, and every send is tracked end to end.
  • Change your mind any time. Tap turn off + delete my address in Account. Your address is erased.
  • The words are written by your companion's AI. The paper, the handwriting, and the stamp are real.
  • Photos printed on mail are always their public-safe pictures. Spicy images never go to print.
  • Physical mail switches on with the full launch rollout, so it may not be live the day you join.

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