Change or Delete Memories

Fix a wrong fact, make one companion forget you, or turn memory off entirely.

You own your memories. If your companion learned something wrong, you can fix it. If you want a fresh start, you can wipe one companion's memory. You can also turn memory off for your whole account.

What to do

Fix one wrong fact:

  1. Open the Account panel and find the privacy & memory section.
  2. Look under "what they remember" for the companion and the wrong memory.
  3. Click the × at the right edge of that line. The memory is deleted right away. There is no undo.
  4. Tell your companion the correct version in your next chat. They will save the new fact, and from then on use that one instead.

Make one companion forget everything:

  1. In the same privacy & memory section, find that companion's card.
  2. Click forget everything next to their name.
  3. Click once more when it says click again to confirm. The double click is on purpose. It stops accidents.

Turn memory off for your whole account:

  1. In privacy & memory, find the they remember me switch.
  2. Flip it off. They stop learning new things about you, and stop recalling what they already know.
  3. Flip it back on any time. What was saved before is still there.

Good to know

  • "Forget everything" clears every memory and the running summary for that one companion. Your chat messages stay — they are the conversation log. The companion just stops knowing anything from them.
  • That wipe only touches memory. Your level and streak with them stay as they were, and your match stays too.
  • Each companion keeps their own memories. Clearing one does not change what the others know about you.
  • Deleting a fact does not block it forever. If you mention it again in chat, it can be saved again.
  • Turning memory off does not delete anything. It pauses learning and recall until you switch it back.
  • Before a big cleanup, take a copy. Export or delete your data explains the one-click export.
  • Removed memories never come back on their own. Be sure before you click.

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