Turn on Spicy mode (18+)

How to unlock the adult side of FlirtAlly — age check, Flame plan or higher, and the rules that never change.

Spicy mode is the adult side of FlirtAlly. Chats, photos, and videos can get explicit. It is only for members who are 18 or older. It is off by default, and it stays off until you turn it on.

What to do

  1. Create an account and sign in. Spicy is for registered members only.
  2. Get a Flame plan or higher. Spicy needs Flame ($19.99/mo, 500 credits), Exclusive ($49.99/mo), or VIP ($99.99/mo).
  3. Verify your age. Open your Account panel and click verify your age. An outside company called Didit confirms you are 18+. See "Age verification, explained" for the full steps.
  4. Choose spicy. During setup, pick spicy for "what are you looking for?" and check the box i'm 18 or older. You can also switch your rating later in your account profile.
  5. Set your spicy preferences. FlirtAlly asks a short, private survey: intensity, likes, and hard limits. Your limits are absolute. The companion will not cross them.

Missing a step? The app tells you. When you hit the spicy edge, a small chip appears. Click it, and it takes you to the exact step you still need — sign in, verify, choose spicy, or upgrade.

What changes

  • Your companion can talk and act like an adult with you.
  • Spicy wardrobe items and a private spicy feed lane appear.
  • Spicy media costs more credits. A premium spicy selfie costs 8 credits. A regular selfie is 3. A 10-second spicy video costs 60 credits. A regular one is 40.

Good to know

  • Spicy does not mean anything goes. Some topics are banned everywhere: minors, real people, non-consent, animals, incest, and graphic violence. That list applies at every setting, spicy included. Your companion will refuse in character.
  • Cross those lines and FlirtAlly itself sends a warning in the chat. Serious or repeated violations end the account. See "Stay safe and report problems" for how warnings work.
  • Spicy is per relationship. The same companion can be spicy with you and tame with someone else.
  • You can go back. Change your rating in your account profile at any time.

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